by Ben Ayalon » Fri Jul 09, 2010 6:57 pm
Scott, Jeff, all.
My apologies for the length of time that I took to come back to you. I have just finished 5 weeks training for a new job and now have to run on my own…not easy, I work about 14h a day and on top had to help and sort some issues with our latest fly-in to France which was very good. Now to the point.
“Ben, Jeffs question was directed at Dick. Jeff and I are not a team, so I see no reason why Dick could not answer his question or anyone elses question. But that is not the reason why Dick does not respond. As far as my commentary concerning Kuszick. Yes, I was very direct and pointed.”
Scott.
Two wrongs do not make good. I think that anything can be said in more than one way, punches, even above the belt are not one of them. Don’t think that sometime I don’t want to kill someone on that forum or another, I do, but I always try to say what I want in a non-personal way. Simple words when communicated over the net can be very painful and hurting because that there is no eye contact. I agree with you that Dick had to come back and answer Jeff, but you effectively re-inforced the reason given by board members for their absence from the forum, they say: “Every time we say something we are being attacked, we don’t need it, we are working for the good of the many, we are volunteers and we refused to be treated this way”.
Can you argue with this? I think not. Non of us on the board (Yes, I am on the board) is being paid, all phone calls, including international, are paid by us, add to it the hours that are spent on ICS or tribe matters the job becomes a job that requires commitment. Saying that, I think that any person that takes any public position should be ready to take some flack and sometime answer back.
“I am of the opinion that since we have a vehicle like a forum, it would be relatively easy for members of the Board to communicate and listen to its members. To have an open and honest dialog with the members that pay dues to ICS. Don't you think it is odd that none of the Board members weigh in on issues and express their views concerning the direction of ICS - their vision of the future, how they are going to solve issues?”
I agree, I think that the forum is a great opportunity that is missed again and again and again and… however, sometime things take time to mature and until it happens there isn’t much to say. Every 2 months (or so) I send a newsletter to my tribe members, trust me that it is not always as simple to fill 2-3 pages with information, yet it does not justify the current situation of ‘no communication’. ‘No communication’ is a very frustrating situation that causes lots of anger and frustration, then every little and unimportant issue gathers momentum and develops a life of its own. I think that lots of bad feelings could be avoided if more board members would have frequent the forum.
Jeff
"First, I think Dick should respond because he made the statement about the membership drive. He announced himself as "Marketing Committee Chairman". The buck stops at his desk and I believe the question was straight forward and simple.“
I agree, but once burnt twice shy. Why should he come back? To get more fire? I can see his point and I can see yours. As you know by now I have different views on several ICS issues
“Third, Sorry Ben, I am not in partnership with Scott. Nor did I discuss any of my comments with him before I posted on the forum. Sorry. “
No apologies are needed, I did not make any assumptions, we are all free to express opinion.
Now something that I would like to say to you all.
A change is something that is not a ‘given right’, a change is something that sometime there is a need to fight for and be committed to, nothing is given on a ‘Silver tray’. To rally the troops and then fold the flags and go home a day before the final battle shows, in my opinion, a lack of commitment. I think that you and Kristin and Scott had to have a slat of your own and go for elections, if you win you win and if you lose, you lose, then you would have known what the membership wants. You have thought that because that you and some other (me included) think in one way you will talk to the board and the board will see the light, it does not work this way, try to convert a Republican to become a Democrat, what are your chances? I thing that you could achieve anything you wanted but you did not have the will to fight the last battle, which in my opinion you would have won.
Today, we are all used to the current ICS website. Do you remember what we had 10 years ago? NOTHING! It took lots of time and many many hours of hard work that were donated by very few. This change happened because some took it upon themselves and pushed it forward.
I think that ICS is an organisation that is worth fighting for, your threat of departure will weaken it financially and might stop the changes that you want to materialise. Saying that, I think that you have drove the message home and I think that the change will happen, time will tell.
Fly safe
Ben